"爱情的最高境界"

严务芬

<p>When i was 14,I hoped that one day i would have a girlfriend.</p><p>When i waw 16 i got a girlfriend ,but there was no passion,so I decided i needed  a passionate girl with a zest for life.</p><p>In college i dated a passionate girl,but she was too emotional ,Everythins was an emergency,she was a drama queen,cried all the time and threatened suicide.So i decided I needed a girl with stability.</p><p>When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring ,she was totally predictable and never got excited about anything.Life became so dull that I decided that I  needed a girl with some excitement.</p><p>When I was 28 I found an exciting girl ,but i couldn't keep up with her.She rushed from one thing to another ,never settling on anything.She did mad impetuous thins and made me miserable as often as happy.She was great fun initially and very energetic,but directionless.So i decided to find a girl with some real ambition.</p><p>When i turned 31,I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground and married her.She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything i owned.</p><p>I am now older and wiser,and am looking for a girl.</p><p>(原来到最后,最明智的选择只是找一个女孩........)</p><p>(水平有限啊,哪位有兴趣可以帮大家翻译一下的.)</p><br/>

冷影无痕

do your best for today

夏小安

<p class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"left\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">　　14</font></span><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">岁那年</span><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">,</font></span><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">我希望有朝能拥有一个女朋友。</span></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"left\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;\"><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">　　</span><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">16</font></span><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">岁那年，我终于拥有了一个女朋友，</span><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">但没有爱的感觉，我认为我需要一个和她有激情的女孩使自己的生活充满乐趣。</span></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">　　在大学里我结识了一个充满激情的女孩，</span><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">但她感情太丰富了，紧张每一个细节，</span><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">行为极端戏剧化，老是哭泣和以死相逼，于是我下了决定要找一个心态平稳的女朋友</span><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">.</font></span><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">。</span></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"> 　　</font></span><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">25</font></span><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">岁那年我遇到了一个性格温和的女孩</span><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">,</font></span><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">但和她一起感觉非常沉闷，</span><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">一切都一目了然，没有任何惊喜，生活变得如此单调乏味。我期待一个令人兴奋的女孩出现。</span></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"> 　　</font></span><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">28</font></span><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">岁那年我碰上了一个令我兴奋的女孩，但我跟不上她的步伐，她对每件事都是三分钟热度，从来没有安稳过下来，她做事急燥冲动，和她相处我烦恼不堪，患得患失，她非常有趣和精力充沛，但又非常盲目。所以我认定必须要找一个有真正目标和理想的女孩做女朋友。</span></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"> 　　</font></span><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">31</font></span><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">岁那年我爱上了一个精明能干野心勃勃，有掌控力的女孩，并与她结了婚。她是那么的有雄心壮族，于是就跟我离了婚，并且带走了我原本拥有的一切。</span></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\"></span></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">　　我现在年纪更大，更聪明了，正在物色下一个女孩</span><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">…..</font></span></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\"></span></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"></font></span></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">（粗略译了一下，不知有无错漏）</font></span></p>

夏小安

<font face=\"Courier\">I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when  we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.</font>
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依澜

<p>有了小安的翻译，阳光的文章才看得明白。</p>

严务芬

<div class=\"quote\"><b>以下是引用<i>夏小安</i>在2006-12-11 22:49:51的发言：</b><br/><p class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"left\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;\"></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\"></span></p><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"> 　　</font></span><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">31</font></span><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">岁那年我爱上了一个精明能干野心勃勃，有掌控力的女孩，并与她结了婚。她是那么的有雄心壮族，于是就跟我离了婚，并且带走了我原本拥有的一切。</span><p></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\"></span></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">　　我现在年纪更大，更聪明了，正在物色下一个女孩</span><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">…..</font></span></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\"></span></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"></font></span></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span lang=\"EN-US\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">（粗略译了一下，不知有无错漏）</font></span></p><br/></div><p></p><p>呵呵,谢谢小安帮忙翻译.前面基本一样,后两段我认为是全文的精华,所以我也大致译了一下.</p><p>31岁那年,我终于认识了一位胸怀大志,天资聪明的女孩,并和她结了婚.想不到她的志向如此之大,以致于我们离婚的时候,她卷走了原来属于我的全部财产.</p><p>现在,我老了,也明智多了,我正在寻找一位女孩.</p><p>(我想这篇文章,作者想表达他终于明白爱情这档事儿,并且仍然相信爱情这玩意儿,寻寻觅觅之后,发现自己和最初的想法是一样的,仅仅是要一位女孩,再没有苛刻的条件限制了,读罢不知能不能给你一点启示?)</p>

浪淘沙

该不会,爱情的最高境界就是\"无条件的爱\"吧?还是说,最高境界永远在无法到达的前方?   或者,适合自己的,才是最好的?

牛奶糖

<p>这是否叫千选万选，选了个烂灯盏。</p><p>还是平凡的好~~~</p>

瑶瑶珠

爱情的最高境界，就系得个吉，咩都无？

夏小安

爱情最基本的包容，体谅，尊重，理解，付出，他一样也未做到．充其量，他就只不过按自己的要求找一个长期伴侣罢．所以．．．他就算再找一千个，一万个girl,都是于事无补．是他本身缺乏了爱的能力．

阿骆

<div class=\"quote\"><b>以下是引用<i>夏小安</i>在2006-12-14 12:14:41的发言：</b><br/>爱情最基本的包容，体谅，尊重，理解，付出，他一样也未做到．充其量，他就只不过按自己的要求找一个长期伴侣罢．所以．．．他就算再找一千个，一万个girl,都是于事无补．是他本身缺乏了爱的能力．<br/></div><p>恩,，同感!</p>

秋

<p>只要有爱情，什么都可以不要。。。。。。</p><p>死了都要爱。。。。。。</p>

陈锦娟

<div class=\"quote\"><b>以下是引用<i>夏小安</i>在2006-12-14 12:14:41的发言：</b><br/>爱情最基本的包容，体谅，尊重，理解，付出，他一样也未做到．充其量，他就只不过按自己的要求找一个长期伴侣罢．所以．．．他就算再找一千个，一万个girl,都是于事无补．是他本身缺乏了爱的能力．<br/></div><p>说得好,正确!</p>[s:17]

冷影无痕

do your best for today