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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 我在心情烦躁的这个阶段，挚友悠游向我发出一个网址，上网仔细阅读，心得以反省。特发出来给各位分享一下！希望各位看后也可以有一点点的收益。心累的主要原因：</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 一代文豪杜甫当年生活极为窘迫</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">可谓食不果腹</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">居无定所</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">终于能住上了一个茅草屋</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">却</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">八月秋高风怒号</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">卷我屋上三重茅</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">”.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">床上“布衾多年冷似铁</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">骄儿恶卧踏里裂</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">”</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">“</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">床头屋漏无干处，雨脚如麻未断绝</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">”.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">虽然人到秋年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">俱味尝遍</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">均上心头</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">欲说还休</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">但还能为广大苍生着想</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">安得广厦千万间</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">大庇天下寒士俱欢顔</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">风雨不动安如山</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">可见</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">他虽为物质生活所累</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">但心却不累</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">精神上也十分富有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">.<p></p></font></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">人都是有欲望的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">有了欲望才能更容易成功</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">然而</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">欲望太多了、太强了却常常适得其反，甚至让人走火入魔。想起林则徐的一副对联：“海纳百川有容乃大，壁立千仞无欲则刚”，忽觉做人还是脚踏实地比较好。正所谓“临渊羡鱼，不如退而结网”。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 成熟的人，有修养的人，应该好好的控制自己的情绪，不心物喜，不心已悲，始终保持一份平和上进的心态，点滴积累，积小成多，聚沙成塔，万事功成。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 哀莫大于心死，累莫天于心累。一个人最大劳累，莫过于心累。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">想干的事情很多，做过后梦也有很多，可是什么也没有做成，于是心就累了。<font color="#f70997" size="6">睁开两眼历历在目，闭上双眸又不堪重负，看不到希望和光芒，于是心也累了。直过千山万水，穿过了密密丛林，趟过了湍急源流，依然找不到心在哪里，那确定是心累了。</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">心若累了，人就失去了灵魂，做事没有了头脑，世间的一切仿佛与他无关了；心若累了，无所谓理想，无所谓热爱，一切都变成了灰色，痛苦与压抑缠身，生活的热忱便越来越淡了；心若累了，心就痛了，心就碎也麻木了，就会在人生的棋子上徘徊不前，一切也就无所谓了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 忙忙碌碌，来去匆匆，身体疲惫，心累；喧喧嚣嚣，繁繁杂杂，思维混乱，心累；昏昏沉沉，恍恍惚惚，神智不清，心累。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 心累到底是什么？是无可奈何花落去，是一个为更多的个人自由选择而付出的沉重代价。不到长城非好汉，对地位的饥饿，对金钱的渴望，对虚伪自尊的坚持，对享乐的无尽欲望，等等，造成自身彻底的不愉快，于是有了生活很累很累的感觉。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 心累，或许是情商低的表现，无助于成功！心累了，明星都要跳楼了；心累了，博士都在流落街头了；心累了，为爱把手腕给割断了；心累了，男人把自己都灌醉了；心累了，成功人士坐拥万贯家财而英年早逝的消息传开了。心累了，心总会慢慢地起皱纹，心就迷失在时间的河流里，心就慢慢地死了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 所以，做人，身可累，心却不能累。怎么才能不累呢？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 要学会适应。不要独自面对黑暗发呆，要适应社会，适应生活。不必过分在意别人的掌声和称赞，不把别人的行为结果作为自己的追求目标。不断扩大自己心理的空间，方能体验生活本身的意义与快乐。要学会释放。把囚禁在心牢中的自己解救出来。所有抑郁埋藏在心底，只会令自己郁郁寡欢，如果把内心的烦恼告诉别人，心情就会顺利舒畅。开放、豁达心心态可换得一颗年轻、快乐、充满活力的心。忘却不幸，藐视挫折，何尚不是人生的升华。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 要学会调节。要认识自己，不要自己给自己套大枷锁，别给自己定太高的期望值标准，翻跟斗要给自己找一个软着的地方，爬云梯要给自己找得来的台阶，实事求是地开发自己的潜能，量身定制设计自己的人生目标。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 要学会微笑。出门一笑，海阔天空。要接纳自己。欣赏自己，喜欢自己，追求完美的同时，容纳不足与毛病。人，只有欣赏自己，才能有信心。不妨学习板桥的糊涂，也不妨模仿阿</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">Q</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">的自嘲，勇敢地面对今天，更好地笑对明天。哭着能做成的事，笑着就做不成了吗？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: -0.05pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> 上帝说：孩子，不管在任何时候，只要有希望，只要心还活着，一切都有可能，我把你的心还给你，希望他能带你走进光明</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p> |
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